especialtys @Tue 16 Jan 2018


friendship post! 🐝 how to: 1. comment a question for everyone to answer {example: "what's your favorite color?", "how many countries have you been to?" "what's something interesting you've done this week?" etc. maybe even make it about something you like, too!} 2. click on my profile and refresh the post and then answer other people's questions! feel free to have conversations and ask for advice if you need to! have fun!!(:

especialtys @Mon 15 Jan 2018


self care exercise if ur missing someone you can’t talk to anymore: get a piece of paper, fold it in half, on the left side write the traits you didn’t like about them and why. go into detail. on the right side you wrote what you liked about them. once you’re done listing that out, write names of people who also have those traits. what this does is helps you look at the person objectively, their positives and negatives, while understanding there are other people like them which can be a good thing and that there are other people who aren’t like them which can be an ever better thing.

especialtys @Mon 15 Jan 2018


yo, dont ever think someone who takes meds are gross or oveerreacting or wrong because they took a med that fell on the floor. or they took a pill that got melted or exploded due to heat or something or they took a pill and are now panicking because the pill didnt help or they were going to take pills and now are panicking cause they dont have enough/lost them. you do not understand how much pills cost, you do not understand how much they might need that one pill, or how horrible their day will be if the pill doesnt work or if they lose it. do not judge them for needing that pill!

especialtys @Fri 12 Jan 2018


dear young teens who masturbate, if anyone says you’re ‘too young’ to be masturbating, please ignore them. they’re ridiculous. there’s no age limit to masturbation, you can masturbate whenever you feel you should. puberty is a time to explore your body and the feelings you’re feeling are valid. it’s YOUR body. you’re not doing anything wrong, or hurting anyone. and honestly masturbating young is helpful, it lets you know what you like and how to make yourself feel good long before anyone ever has the chance to displease you, and in the future if you ever have a sexual partner you’ll know just how to please yourself and won’t have to suffer through not being able to be pleased like so many people do because they don’t know how to please themselves like so many young people because they were taught that they were “too young” to be touching their own bodies and doing so was wrong. let me tell you, it’s not. in fact I think its a wonderful thing you’re exploring your body. it’s an innocent act of self love, a cramp and headache cure, and so many more things. your body is your own, don’t let anyone tell you it’s not. #masturbation #sexedposts

#sexedposts #masturbation

especialtys @Thu 11 Jan 2018


Things you need to remember; -Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken. -Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. -This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. -You are not alone. -You are enough. -You are important. -You are worth it. -You are strong. -You are not a failure. -Good people still exist, you just have to find them. -Reaching out shows strength. -Breathe. -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. -Give yourself credit. -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. -Focus on the things you can change. -Let go of toxic people. -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. -Try not to beat yourself up. -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. -You are not a bother. -Your existence is more than your appearance. -You are smart. -You are loved. -You are wanted. -You are needed. -Better days are coming. -Nobody owns you, if you feel uncomfortable with something, say so and don't do it. -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. -You have more potential than you think. - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth. (via callistomist)

especialtys @Wed 10 Jan 2018


some things I’ve noticed about people through Eve: - a lot of people don’t know much about discharge and worry if it’s normal, double point for brown discharge. - periods suck! and no one understands that sex while menstruating or masturbation while on your period is normal and in fact, encouraged. - a lot of people don’t understand that lube is a necessity, for whatever kind of sex you’re having (even oral needs a little slipping up) - a lot of people want to try anal or have tried it but have no idea what they’re getting themselves into and then push it off as being terrible bc they didn’t do it right. no lube, no or prep? honey! it’s going to hurt! anal or not you need lube and you need to prep before penetration! - pregnancy scares happen daily and are terrifying and a lot of people worry they’re pregnant even if all they did was grind with clothes on bc they don’t understand how impregnation works. that’s fucking terrifying. - moral of the story? young people have been failed when it comes to sex education and I can’t stand it. I vow to make a difference. the worst thing about all of this? this isn’t even all of the things I saw that I wanted to add to this. it’s heartbreaking. my heart physically hurts. how could we live in a world where history is mandatory to learn but we don’t even learn anything about our own bodies and are expected just to figure it out on our own? does anyone have any idea how harmful that is?

especialtys @Wed 10 Jan 2018


Hey, listen to your emotions... Bitterness; shows you where you need to heal, where you're still holding judgements on others and yourself. Resentment; shows you where you're living in the past and not allowing the present to be as it is. Discomfort; shows you that you need to pay attention right now to what is happening, because you're being given the opportunity to change, to do something different than you typically do it. Anger; shows you what you're passionate about, where your boundaries are, and what you believe needs to be changed about the world. Disappointment; shows you that your tried for something, that you did not give in to apathy, that you still care. Guilt; shows that you are still living life in other people's expectations of what you should do. Shame; shows that you internalizing other people's beliefs about who you should be (or who you are) and that you need to reconnect with yourself. Anxiety; shows that you need to wake up, right now, and be present, that you're stuck living in the past and living in fear of the future. Sadness; shows you the depth of your feeling, the depth of your care for others and this world. (feel free to add on)

especialtys @Tue 09 Jan 2018


ATTENTION NYC FOLKS: In case you haven’t noticed, it’s very cold outside. The city has issued a Code Blue Weather Emergency, which means no one who is homeless and seeking shelter will be denied. Should you see an individual who appears to be homeless and in need out in the cold, please call 311, give a description of the person and the location, and an outreach team will be dispatched to assist. You don’t have to do anything else but call. You don’t need to approach the person, or wait for anyone to arrive. Just #Call311 Whether you are in NYC now or not, please copy/paste/share! It doesn’t take much effort on your part and could immensely help those in need.

#call311

especialtys @Tue 09 Jan 2018


I posted this on my story but I also wanna post it here: there’s this app called Eve that’s both a period & sex tracker but also an educational app where people can join groups like masturbation questions, period help, etc and if you already have it you can join my group that’s “sex education 101” and use my code “MZUHBI” to get five dollars worth of free gems (gems are like articles on various things like sex, periods, relationships, etc!) but this is a really cool way you guys can get help with sex, period, or body related questions (if you don’t have a uterus you can still use this app! plenty of people do who don’t including trans girls !)

especialtys @Mon 08 Jan 2018


Just a gentle reminder for people with anxiety, panic disorders or who get nervous quickly: - Chain mail, “reblog this or..” posts "don't scroll past or you'll.." etc, don’t work. They’re not real. Nothing bad will happen if you don’t forward that mail or reblog that post. - “If you don’t reblog this, you’re a bad person” "if you don't like this you're heartless" is a lie. You’re not a bad person for not clicking a button. - You are allowed to unfollow blogs that post triggering content that could potentially harm you or hurts you in anyway. - You’re not weak or a crybaby for avoiding things that are triggering. Far from it, you’re taking care of yourself. That’s amazing!

especialtys @Mon 08 Jan 2018


TRIGGER WARNING - mentions of sexual assault #sexedposts The year is 2018, and you still have to explain to adult men AND women that there’s no such thing as a “tight” or “loose” vagina, because it’s a muscle that expands and contracts depending on a variety of reasons. Or that someone with a vagina does NOT pee out of their vagina, but out of their urethra. Or that reaching an orgasm during sexual assault does not mean the person enjoyed it. Or that abortion is not the destruction of a fetus, but is of a clump of cells and banning abortion is only going to kill more people than abortion ever has. (ps, if we had better sex ed and easier access to birth control & protection, abortion is not hardly needed but either way, if it's not your body it's not your problem! keep your opinions to your own uterus). Or that the length of a penis has NO relevance to the ability to preform well sexually, since the average vagina is only 4-6 inches deep and the average penis is only (soft) 2-3 or (hard) 5-6 inches long. That pubic hair is not unsanitary or gross, it actually helps protect the sex organs against bacteria, and shaving actually increases chance of infection, abscesses and rashes. But no, we don’t need comprehensive sex education in America, we’re doing fine! #sexeducation #sexed #sexualhealth

#sexedposts #sexualhealth #sexeducation #sexed

especialtys @Mon 08 Jan 2018


{TRIGGER WARNING for comments. please be careful while browsing this thread!} VENT, RANT, SAY ANYTHING YOU NEED TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST! it's not good to always hold things in, so try letting off some steam in the comments of this post okay? PS: try helping other people//giving advice. if you don't want advice, please specify! & for those who have nothing to rant/vent about please comment positive things!!

especialtys @Mon 08 Jan 2018


shoutout to people who spend tons of time on their phones because that’s all they can physically and mentally handle on most days. don’t let anyone shame you for that. you’re doing the best you can. I'm proud of you. (pic belongs to @resin_lips)

especialtys @Sun 07 Jan 2018


hi cuties! I feel like I set my posts to unrealistic standards that sometimes I can’t abide by and I’d like to explain why my content hasn’t been as diverse as it normally is. you may have witnessed of all the problems I’ve had with Instagram, but most of those are all sorted out. thus, I had a lot of posts planned for the new year but then I got a new phone and let my partner borrow my other phone (I’ll be getting it back soon) but! I had hoped through iCloud I’d get all my notes but unfortunately, I did not so I’m running on a low amount of posts, most of them older ones. I’m sorry! I may end up doing more interactive posts just to keep content out there for the week and maybe even repost some older posts!!

especialtys @Sun 07 Jan 2018


I hope 2018 is gentle and kind to you. I hope you get to rest from the pain and suffering of breaking through your shell and begin to experience the bliss and joy of blossoming. I hope you are kind to others, and I hope you also remember to be kind to yourself. I hope you are able to heal from everything you’ve been through the past few years. I hope you are able to let go of all the pain you’ve been carrying in your bones and in your heart. I hope this is the year that makes you so grateful you’ve kept going through the nights you thought you couldn’t make it. I hope this is the year that will make you say it was all worth it, all of the pain you’ve felt and dark times you’ve been through. I hope this is the year you rediscover your light. (via sweethoneydew)